From Isolation to Belonging

It’s become easy to isolate yourself with the ever present cell phones, facebook and many of us living miles away from our families. We tend to go about our business; work and keeping up with our own chores, forgetting about our deep need for connection.

When this need to belong to a greater community than just ourselves became overwhelming, we found the 18th Street Farmer’s Market.

Below is an excerpt from Julia’s new book, “The Long Road to Market”, the story of how the women of Five Feline Farm moved from isolation to belonging.

The seclusion of country life can be a curse as well as a blessing. We moved into the new home at the beginnning of September, headed into the fall and then winter in a new place. The nearest neighbor is over a quarter mile away and someone we have never met. We are nine miles from town. It is not a great distance yet a long trek in the dark days of winter with snow piling up. We found our self-sufficiency skills would be tested in ways we were not expecting.

Slowly neighbors started dropping over to introduce themselves. They were surely curious about these two women who built such an enormous house. We struggled to remember who was who and how they all fit together. Many had been living in the area for a long time, some for all their lives. We were the new kids and didn’t have relatives or connections here. Until we could figure out who to trust in the new neighborhood, we retreated into our own world, working feverishly to reclaim the land from years of neglect.

So, for the most part, we were on our own with some help from our families. All of our spare time was consumed with various projects around the farm to make our dream a reality. It was a relief to be away from the loudness of 20,000 people vying for their place in the world all at the same time. When we could, we planned our shopping to get as much as possible in one trip, making it commonplace to pick up necessities before or after work.

It was glorious to be removed from town life, yet after a period of time lonely. We yearned for connection and belonging to a community.

The Long Road to Market is available in both print and digital formats by clicking here.

Let’s Start a Revolution!

Remember customer service?

Attendants pumped gas, checked your oil, put air in the tires and water in the radiator.

The era when all grocery stores had people who not only checked out your groceries but also bagged them and carried them to your car?

A time when shop owners knew their products and were willing to talk to you about them. Actual honest-to-goodness human conversation.

Do you miss those times?

We do. At least some of the time. Really we just want a choice to go to those places when we want. There is definitely a place in our world for drive up or grab and go, but surely there is also a place for customer service.

We’ve moved into a self-serve society. It is the inevitable result of our desire for fast-pace and instant gratification. There is no more free service. We bag our own groceries, use the self-check lanes, pump our own gas, and are shocked if a greeter at a retail store actually speaks to us. We can even order the vast majority of our needs on Amazon to have it arrive on our doorstep with no human interaction.

At Five Feline Farm we strive to bring back service. We know our products because we make them and would love to tell you all about the BEEk balm or scones. Just ask about when the basil and tomatoes were harvested. You will get the answer you won’t receive at the big box store.

You work hard and deserve to have someone take an interest in you and your needs. Maybe even help you feel a little pampered. Our goal is to be small scale, high quality and provide you with a positive experience.

We want to provide quality, service and conversation.

But it goes beyond our service to you. We want to start a revolution.

A revolution of kindness. Isn’t that what service is all about?

What can you do today to serve someone?

Start small–

Smile at someone.

Hold a door.

Ask someone how they are and really listen to their answer.

Join our revolution.

Give us a shout on social media or email and let us know what you did today to join our revolution.

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A Look Back at 2017

It’s that time again. The break in the calendar that prompts a natural desire to look at the past year and make plans for the next.

We do the same at Five Feline Farm. 2017 was a great year for us. If you follow us on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, in person at the 18th Street Farmer’s Market or even here on the blog, you know we expanded our business in several ways during the past year.

Perhaps our biggest achievement was opening our on-farm store—the Farm Fresh Mercantile. Finishing the store was a huge task. We reclaimed as much material as possible and did almost all of the labor ourselves. The grand opening was in October and we are now open the first Saturday of each month. Keep an eye on our social media for any last minute specials or announcements.

We expanded our presence at the 18th Street Farmer’s Market with a double size booth last summer. This extra space allowed us to enhance our displays into a more customer friendly presentation plus we added a grower. Martha B. produced additional vegetables, most notably potatoes. Her fingerling and specialty potato varieties were a huge hit.

A highlight for us was the inagural publication of Five Feline Farm Press. Simply Delicious is a compilation of recipes and stories that debuted on October 24. This book answers the many questions posed to us about what we cook and eat on a regular basis.

We also found ourselves in demand as speakers. In 2017, we presented at two events: Spring Into Gardening and Web@ through EIU. In addition we hosted a farm tour for Lincoln Log Cabin and the Academy of Lifelong Learning. Each of these events showcased a different section of our farm; from honeybees to nearly organic gardening practice.

How do we top all of that? What is coming in 2018?

As you might expect from us by now we are dreaming big. We will be expanding and refining the garden plots again, adding some special features to the landscape to add to our destination experience and continue to improve our product offering. We can’t really tell you too much right now, but keep following our news feed on all the social media channels.

5 Ways to Eat Healthier

Are you looking for simple steps you can do to make your life better, healthier and more productive?

So are we.

We are on a mission to improve our health by improving our diet. It is hard to make sweeping changes. Slowly the deprivation eats away at our willpower and before we know it, old habits have taken over.

The answer is to use simple, straightforward action items that can be implemented easily. Below are five suggestions you can do today:

1. Read food labels. 

This will help you understand what you are putting into your system. Really give yourself a minute to think about the building blocks your body needs. Your body is a machine. Water, protein, minerals, and trace elements will help it run most efficiently; not long chemical sounding ingredients.

2. Cook at home. 

The best way to take control of your diet is to cook at home. You will know every ingredient included. Plus, it’s a lot cheaper to make your favorite foods at home.

3. Eat an apple every day. 

Remember the old adage “an apple a day keeps the doctor away”? Did you ever wonder about the meaning behind it? Apples and other fruits have a lot of natural nutrients, fiber and vitamins. Mix it up with pears, bananas, oranges, grapes, berries; pick your favorite, there are plenty of options to keep you from getting bored. Just serving of fruit a day will build a habit of including natural whole foods in your diet.

4. Eliminate sweet drinks

This may be difficult at first, especially if you have a hardcore habit. It also includes no artificial sweeteners. If you make a conscious effort, you will find over the period of a week or so it gets easier. Sweet drinks add empty calories to your diet with no nutrients in return. 

5. Limit meat. 

Start with one or two meals a week without meat. Beans, eggs and nuts are good sources of protein. Meats are harder to digest and can leave you sluggish without realizing why. To compensate for less meat, add more complex carbohydrates and vegetables to your meal.

We have been implementing these steps. Some times life happens and we miss the mark, but each day is an opportunity to choose wisely.

Challenge yourself and your family to implement one of these steps each week over the next five weeks. At the end of the challenge, check in with yourself about how you feel. Do you feel better physically and mentally?

What other action items will you implement? Let us know your plans in the comments. 

Be sure to follow us on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram for the latest updates on all things Five Feline Farm. If you are in the Charleston, IL area, stop by our Farm Fresh Mercantile Grand Opening this Saturday, October 7 from 12:00PM to 4:00PM.